Most days I create an intention for my day.  This helps me with my interactions and my decisions.  I choose three words that remind me of my intention and how I consciously will create my day.  When things come up during the day that could cause me to question what to do, what is right for me, I call upon these words to give me guidance and wisdom.  This is one of the ingredients of the policy manual for my life.  Have you created your policy manual for your life?